Imagine this scene. It is your wedding day and you have just walked up the aisle, where you now stand in front of your closest family and friends. You recognize that this is one of the most significant moments of your life that you are sharing with everyone present. How would you like to embrace them?

What message do you wish to communicate to those present?

Are there individuals that you would like to acknowledge in a personal way?

A San Francisco wedding officiant, I recently experienced a very intimate gathering where the couple chose to personally acknowledge each of the dozen guests that surrounded them. As I delivered the personal message to each guest, I could see how touched they were. Afterwards the bride told me that the talk over dinner was about how meaningful the ceremony was for everyone there.

Here are some examples of the kind of sentiments that can touch the hearts of your guests:

  • To your parents, acknowledge their love, support and contributions to your life
  • To your close friends, the role they’ve played in your growth
  • To other family members, their influence and guidance
  • To children from a previous marriage, their acceptance and understanding
  • To loved ones who have passed, for their ideals that you bring to your relationship

Weddings provide a unique time in our busy lives where we come together in the spirit of love and heart. Recognize your opportunity to make your ceremony one that everyone will remember.